We live in a free-market world, which means we’re drowning in choices.
And with endless choices comes… well, choosing wrong. A lot.
Cookies instead of broccoli.
Parties instead of sleep.
Elevator instead of stairs.
And come Friday night? Comfort food and Netflix basically tackle us to the couch.
We KNOW these aren’t the best decisions (no one has ever flexed about thriving on the “Starbucks Diet”), but we still make them. Not because we hate ourselves—because we’re exhausted from deciding everything all the time.
Our parents called it willpower. Dan Ariely calls it ego depletion. Whatever you call it, the tank runs dry.
On Monday, we’re superheroes—up early, morning walk, perfectly packed lunch.
By Friday? Tortilla chips count as breakfast.
Decision fatigue is new-ish as an idea, but very real in practice.
Our ancestors didn’t face 1% of the daily choices we do.
Wake up because the cows are loud.
Eat oatmeal because that’s what’s there.
Buy one Christmas gift because that’s what everyone does.
Simple. Automatic. Probably made them happier.
People under major pressure—CEOs, founders, high performers—get this. They deliberately reduce decisions.
Steve Jobs wore the same outfit and ate the same breakfast every day.
Not because he lacked style—because spending willpower choosing cereal is energy stolen from the big stuff later.
So how do we protect our willpower from burning out?
Habits. Routine. Simplicity.
- Wake up at the same time.
- Eat the same breakfast.
- Hit the gym at the same time.
- Let someone else choose the workout.
I try to offload as many decisions as possible. And when I do decide, I don’t pick it apart afterward—because second-guessing is its own special form of fatigue.
It’s almost always better to make a quick decision and correct later than to stall out trying to find the “perfect” one.
If you’re getting back into working out or cleaning up your diet after a rough patch, the best thing you can do is remove choices:
- Do a 30- or 90-day challenge where you just follow instructions.
- Show up to CrossFit class and let the coach run the show.
- Meal-prep on Sundays when your brain is fresh.
- Borrow someone else’s plan until the habits stick.
Save your willpower for real stressors—like your boss, your inbox, or deciding which Tupperware lid actually fits.
Your workouts don’t need to be perfect.
Your diet doesn’t need to be innovative.
You don’t have to research everything to death.
Avoid “paralysis by analysis.”
Even I have coaches—they tell me what to do so I can save my brainpower for life outside the gym.
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